set goal
Unless you shape your life, circumstances will shape it for you. You have to work, sacrifice, invest, and persist to get the results you want.Choose them well. You can't start your planning until you know where you want to go.
You are the sculptor of your own image. Have others already done what you want to do ? Study them and do what they did. Start anywhere, at anytime, and persist with confidence and capability. Stop worrying. Stop worrying what others think about what you can or can't do. Behave in yourself and your abilities. Have the self-confidence to challenge your current situation. This is your life to live; it's day by day and step by step.
Write down your goals. Only three percent of people have written goals and only one percent review those written goals daily. Be in that elite one percent. Visualize the attainment of your goals often. Goals are dreams with dates attached. You will only become as great and as happy as the goals you choose.